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Hi all.............for the last one year,after registering myself in Eblogger,I've been pondering over stuffs to write upon.........And hey the good news is that I've finally got something to write upon and the bad news is ,this topic is the most confusing,yet most craved after thing on earth.And yes(no more brainstorming required),the topic is LOVE......

Man is a social animal.He's an animal.....why????Ask biologists.But he's definitely social.It's because,he knows how to express his love.Love for money,knowledge or any special someone makes him part of the soceity and drives him to his goals and desires.For centuries,man's been trying to define what's love.Infact,me for the last 10 years or so,is trying really hard to grab this concept into my mind,but alas,still didn't figure out any basic mathematical tool to illustrate it diagrammatically...:P & yes,I started really early!

People say Love is Life.Some say Love is Trap.But I'd like to say that Love is a lifetime ticket to broadway,showing you all colours and seasons of life.Whatever love is,it's really very abstract yet very much distinct!Actually Love doesn't need to be discussed; it has its own voice & speaks for itself!

You know, What's ridiculous about Love?
The idea of depending on one person for the rest of your life seems fully irrational;yet all beautiful rationalities in life had their origin from an irrational idea only!
Let me tell you, What Love really means to me?
Love for me is like a sweet rhythmic hymn that goes on till eternity,making you smile throughout your life.
Love for me is a list of endless nights,where every night seems like the first night.
Love for me is like endless chats,endless walks where no one ever gets out of words to say.
Love for me is like doing, out of the world romantic gestures, once in a while;like Ted's 2 minute date for Stella or say going 500 miles just to catch a short glimpse of your special someone,without considering the risk of being humiliated at the end.
Love for me is like a dam of mutual trust and understanding;which no matter how fast the water flows,nothing can breach.
Love for me is like defying all worldly obligations to have your beloved;like Sujal's craving for Kasish defying all(can't help it....had to add this....:P).
Love for me is the eternal spirituality which gives me the strength to achieve anything or everything in life.
Yes,guilty as charged!I'm an ardent romcom fan;being born & brought up in the unrealistic Yash Raj era of Indian films!!

Some people might say to you that Love is the only thing worth fighting for till the end. Here I just want to spice it up a little;Love that is possible is only worth trying for!
But this clause of 'Possibility' should be as much lean as possible.It shouldn't be a leverage for bail-out of cowards who don't even try for once. Always remember what Dr. HITCH says,'Basic Principles - no matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet; he just needs the right broom.'
Life's all about minimizing regrets. Have you ever wondered, 'I Could've', what this phrase means?
Actually friends,god's send the seeds of love in the hand of destiny, to this world for all. There's no basic protocol or algorithm for allocation of these seeds. Actually, our life is full of moments, where certain things could've happened, but they didn't. It's only because the magic moments went unrecognized & the hands of destiny just moved away from your head to someone else's. And then he lives happily ever after and you moron just go on eating your hat for the rest of you life!
And friends,Why this total scene of 'could've' ever comes to surface?
It's only because you're afraid of rejection!Every individual on this planet at some point in their life must've said,'I don't deserve this for a love that's not worth it!'.We suffer only because our love is being unrecognized and not reciprocated.But ultimately,there's a good reason for all these suffering,as in every love lies the seeds of our growth.
More than half of the relationships doesn't even come to surface because of the significant 'other' in our lives.
By 'other' I mean,'What I want to be like not What I'm.'
How many times have you heard people saying,'I don't have enough time for a relationship now.I've more important things to achieve'? These poor souls in the name of ambitions,work,duties for their whole life,live a lie & keep complaining that their life's a mess. These people don't understand the beauty of sacrificing one's own dreams for much bigger dreams. Presence of love gives us the checkpoints to the ever expanding pot named desire.
One shouldn't think much & 'Break the glass'.It means resolving the inner battles of yours & taking the plunge. And Yes,you might argue,that our choice might be wrong or may be it's not the right time. Then also I'd say,if your heart wants to,then take the plunge. Always remember,'A fall from the 3rd floor hurts as much as a fall from 100th'.Life's all about taking decisions,doing mistakes & learning from those mistakes. But if you don't take the plunge then you'd be stuck forever in the vicious circle of Could've;as 'Failure/Success is Momentary but Satisfaction is Eternal!'

When a man moves too fast,being unsure of himself,proposing things that are all very confusing;we know that he's in love.Any girl with the least bit of sensitivity could look into his eyes & understand what's there in his heart for her.What she'll tell he doesn't know yet,but one thing we surely know that he's suffering from the worst kind of addiction called 'lovijuana'.It's the worst kind of narcotic.I guess parents can give dose of pot,grass,marijuana(whatever u say!!!) to their kids suffering from lovijuana addiction!!!lolzzz....At first it brings the euphoria of complete surrender.Then slowly she rules his thoughts for 2 minutes & then he forgets her for say 3 hours.But slowly slowly,when this shifting of time-slice between 2 minutes & 3 hours occurs,he won't even realize.Before he realizes it,he can't think of anything else significant on this earth other than she.This feeling is fully ecstatic and totally out of hand.I bet,no drug on this earth can give this experience!!!
But my friends who've just broken up,don't resort to drugs. I've some good news for you. You're the significant few who know, what you want now. Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worst kind of suffering. You people clearly don't fall in the third category. Don't worry. All love stories have much in common. Love existed before & will exist on forever.No love is actually true. It's only our heart's trick which makes us believe that it's the only one.Love manifests in various forms,one after another.Regardless of whether we love once,twice or dozen times,it'll surely take us to somewhere new.It might be hell or it might be heaven.Actually the moment we start seeking love,love seeks us!
And for all my single friends,I've some good news for you too.Let me share an event with you:
Two days back while returning from training,I boarded a local train(emu) as usual.You might not be knowing,but these trains get so crowded that you should consider yourself lucky,if you get a decent place to stand.Well that day a couple got in.As it's very crowded they're really struggling to stand.But the guy stood like a barricade,around that girl,irrespective of the rush getting in and out at every station.In trying times like these I saw their eyes.They're so peaceful.They're definitely in love.It gave him that strength to overcome that rush.
One imortant thing I forgot to menation above,the couple's in their late fifties!The smile in their face brought an instant smile into my face.So friends try to appreciate all the love around. God is not unfair,there's too much love in the air.The day you start smiling at small-small gestures of love in life,you'll surely start feeling that life's too much beautiful to be missed. When you start loving yourself,people around would start loving you!

Every couple in this planet consider themselves to be unique. It might be love at first sight,love after days of sights or say love after years of sights. But one thing you should never forget; Love is not about where things start,it's about where it goes!Not every individual get what they want. If you've it,consider yourself to be the significant few special ones. So don't mess with your gift.
After Love comes Marriage. But unlike in every other movie;they don't always live happily ever after. I want to quote an instance from 30 Rock where Liz discusses with Jane about love:
Liz: I don't have to shave,I don't have to bathe,I don't have to be clever or
nice;you know,I can just be myself, this is not what love is?
Jane: No love is hiding from who you're at all times even while you're
sleeping.Love's wearing make-up to bed,and going downstairs to purgatory to
poop & hiding alcohol in perfume bottles.that's love.
Liz: Ohh....it just sounds hard............Being with Dennis is easy.If you give
into it,you just start to feel kind of numb and warm and then you just get
sleepy.It's not that bad!
Jane: That exactly what seems like when you freeze to death!!
Here I present to you two ironical statements about love.You must be wondering that I've gone nuts.
I want to just ask,How many cases of infidelity have you come across?What's your stand in adultery?
I guess,Marriage is all about taking vows to evolve socially,economically and physically together but not alone.It means driving the wheel of life together!But people tends to go to a safe zone after marriage.If any partner goes to a slack after marriage then he/she is definitely devaluing the vows and cheating on his spouse.He/She is as much guilty as the one who's cheating on him/her by involving in adultery!
Actually successful marriages are built on trust,understanding,compromise & most importantly love. Love should be the basic raw material & should never be taken for granted. How many have you seen love transforming to sympathy?This is the worst thing that can happen in any relationship. It leads to numbness & sure-shot slow death!

So bottom line is that Love is the true Philosopher's Stone in Life!You needn't have to go to Hogwarts to have it!!!!!!Just look into your heart and feel the magic moments of life!

The Wise are Wise ,only because they Love!
And the Foolish are Foolish because they think they can understand Love!

Call me wise;Call me a fool. But you might be surely wondering,how come this foolish wise single know all these?
To that,I'll just sign-off stating::

You don't need to be in Rome to know what the Romans do!!!!!!!!!!SAVVY!!!!